"My
tongue is a dog's" - The language of devotion In the world of social media, the term "tongue dog" (舔狗) has gained popularity to describe a person who constantly flatters and follows their loved one relentlessly. In English, this is commonly referred to as being a "lapdog" or "bootlicker". This type of behavior has long existed in relationships, but with the rise of social media, it has become more visible and widely recognized. So, what motivates this behavior, and why is it so prevalent? Devotion and the desire for approval are at the heart of being a tongue dog. Those who display this behavior are willing to do anything to gain the affection of their loved one, even if it means losing their own dignity in the process. They shower their love interest with praise, gifts, and attention, all in the hopes of being noticed and chosen in return. The tongue dog mentality is not limited to romantic relationships, however. It can also be seen in friendships, workplace dynamics, and even in social media interactions. People will often overly compliment others, agreeing with them to gain their favor or staying silent when they disagree to avoid conflict. On the surface, being a tongue dog may seem harmless, but it can have negative consequences. Firstly, it can be manipulative and exploitative. Those who constantly flatter and follow others may have ulterior motives, such as seeking favors or using the relationship for personal gain. Additionally, it can be degrading and hurtful to the tongue dog themselves. They may feel as though they are giving up their own sense of autonomy and dignity in pursuit of someone else's company. Despite this, being a tongue dog is not always a negative thing. There are instances where showing devotion and affection is genuine and appreciated. It becomes a problem when done excessively and without consideration for one's own well-being. In conclusion, the life of a tongue dog may seem glamorous, with its promises of love and attention, but it comes at a price. It is important to appreciate the genuine relationships we have and to treat ourselves with respect and dignity. While devotion is admirable, we must also remember to value ourselves and our opinions. As the saying goes, "love yourself first, and everything else falls into line."