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狗皮膏药”这个词语用来形容人，是指那种总是黏在别人身上，让人觉得十分烦人的人。
跟狗皮膏药一样，这种人总是不愿意离开别人，哈巴狗似的跟在身后，讲话的时候总是插科打诨，闹个不停，人们烦透了却又不好意思直说。
本文从“狗皮膏药”的定义入手，通过阐述“狗皮膏药”存在的根源及其带来的负面影响，探讨如何避免成为“狗皮膏药”，从而达到促进人际关系的和谐的目的。
一、什么是“狗皮膏药” “狗皮膏药”是指那些黏糊糊、让人感到厌烦的人。
他们往往不管在什么场合、什么时间，总是大声讲话，做出一些不合时宜的事情，侵犯别人的个人空间，影响了人际关系的和谐；他们随意打断别人的谈话，占用别人的时间，导致别人工作效率降低；他们没有自知之明，不会因为他人的情绪而收敛自己，因此很容易引起别人的反感。
二、形成“狗皮膏药”的原因 1、缺乏自信心和安全感，希望得到别人的关注和认可。
有些人在与人交往中常常追求目的之外的东西，比如希望得到别人的认可或者好感。
这种行为会让人感到不自然和紧张，因为交流应该是一种自然而且无压力的经历。
2、沉迷于自己的话题，不愿意听别人说话。
“狗皮膏药”在交流过程中喜欢在自己单方面的眼界里追求新的话题，而不是尝试理解对方。
这会让人感到受到忽视，因此会产生不愉快的情绪。
3、情感上的依赖，需要别人的陪伴来稳定自己。
人们很容易产生依赖感，个人的敏感性和依赖心理可能会导致“狗皮膏药”的出现。
这不仅可能让他们变得固执和顽固，还会给他们带来很多负面情绪。
英文版： Using the term "dog patch" to describe people means that they are the kind of people who always stick to others, making them feel very annoying. Like a dog patch, these people are always unwilling to leave others, sticking to them like a husky, constantly talking, making jokes, and people are annoyed but they are not good at saying it directly. This article starts from the definition of "dog patch", through the explanation of the root cause of the existence of "dog patch" and its negative impact, and discusses how to avoid becoming a "dog patch", so as to promote the harmony of interpersonal relationships. What is a "dog patch" "Dog patch" refers to those sticky people who make people feel bored. They often speak loudly and do inappropriate things in any occasion and time, invading other people's personal space and affecting the harmony of interpersonal relationships; they interrupt other people's conversation at will, occupy other people's time, and reduce other people's work efficiency; they have no self-awareness and will not restrain themselves because of others' emotions, so they are easy to cause other people's dislike. The reasons for the formation of "dog patches" 1. Lack of self-confidence and security, hope to get others' attention and recognition. Some people often pursue things beyond their goals in social interaction, such as hoping to be recognized or favored by others. This kind of behavior will make people feel unnatural and nervous, because communication should be a natural and stress-free experience. 2. Obsessed with their own topics, unwilling to listen to others. "Dog patches" like to pursue new topics in their own one-sided horizon in the process of communication, rather than trying to understand the other party. This will make people feel neglected, so unpleasant emotions may arise. 3. Emotional dependence, need to stabilize oneself by other people's companionship. People are prone to generate a sense of dependence. Individual sensitivity and dependence psychology may lead to the emergence of "dog patches". This may not only make them become stubborn, but also bring them a lot of negative emotions.